Soul of An Empath

Ep 57: Sex Magic for Manefistation

Episode Summary

A seer, seeker, and spiritual explorer, Liz Peterson uses her journey of healing, transformation, and empowerment in service. She is a trained Intuitive Energy Healer, Reiki Master, Spiritual Coach, Psychic Oracle, and certified Yoni Shakti Yoga/Yoga Nidra practitioner. Liz recently launched Amazon’s top-ranked book ‘Sex Magic: How to Use Sexual Energy to Manifest Your Dreams’ about sexual energy and manifestation. She is also the host of the popular show ‘Raise the Vibe with Liz Podcast’ on the power of healing and the author of another Amazon top-ranked book ‘Mom Died Last Night: My Shared Death Experience' on how to deal with grief. With love and compassion, it’s her mission to assist others on their spiritual journey of inner awakening, healing, and self-empowerment. Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/raisethevibewithliz/, Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/raisethevibewithliz/, YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC20e9tSJy0fjKuKfdSIhhlQ

Episode Transcription

(...3.4s)Welcome to soul of an empath, the podcast that helps empaths to feel loved, seen, (...0.6s)heard, and understood in all areas of your life.

Now here is your host Tiffany Cano, (...4.7s)another soul of an empath podcast.

I'm Tiffany Cano.

Have you been listening to it on my new cell phone app?

If you haven't, (...0.8s)as an FYI, it is now available at HPP Academy cellphone app, which is a newer addition to, you know, all the ways that it I've been able to stream to you.

And I'm really excited to bring on the guest today, Liz Peterson, who is from raise the vibe (...1.2s)with Liz.

So, it's like, you're bringing in the good juicy yummy vibrations.

And I do mean juicy, cause (...0.9s)just wait, you'll, you'll understand why in a moment.

So (...0.6s)Liz is a seer as seeker, a spiritual explorer.

She uses her journey of healing, transformation and empowerment and service.

She's trained as an intuitive healer, a Reiki master, a spiritual coach, a psychic Oracle, and a certified Yoni Shakti Yoga, Yoda Nidra practitioner.

Liz recently launched Amazon's top ranking Sex Magic, you heard me, right, Sex Magic, how to use Sexual Energy to manifest your dreams about Sexual Energy and manifestation.

She's also the host of the popular show raise the vibe with Liz podcast on the power of healing.

And she's an author.

She has written an Amazon top ranked book, Mom Died Last Night, my Shared Death experience on how to deal with grief (...2.1s)and (...0.6s)with love and compassion.

Her mission is to assist others on their spiritual journey of inner awakening, healing, (...0.6s)and self empowerments.

So welcome Liz.

Thank you for being here.

Thank you so much, Tiffany.

What a great intro.

I really appreciate it, lovely to be on your show.

My pleasure, my pleasure.

So (...0.6s)sex magic.

(...1.1s)Now (...1.3s)I know what my preconceived ideas are about that.

And, and I think of Tantra and I think of, you know, (...0.6s)bringing in spirituality with sacred sensual and sexual practices to help connect with source, you know, and then connect with the divinity within another person.

But what is sex magic for you?

Like, how do you define it?

Let's just start there.

Well, to simply define it, it's using our life force energy to create.

I do have a tantra background, sacred sexuality.

I've been doing this work actually minus the sexual peace since my four year training in the late nineties with the energy work and running my energy working, working with chakras and the aura (...0.7s)and intuition and psychic abilities.

So for me, this was really a culmination of all the work that I had been doing, and all the work that I've been doing around manifesting in my life to bring in this missing piece of using my actual sexual energy, my arrows, my life force for manifesting in my life.

Hmm, (...0.8s)yes, there's such creative manifestation energy in our sex chakra.

I mean, that's where, how we make babies, you know, (...0.7s)literally birthing something (...0.6s)into existence.

So, (...1.5s)you know, talk to me a little bit more about, like, the significance in various spiritual traditions and contemporary context.

Great, what a great question.

Yeah, co creation is definitely our birthright, right?

Because it is being birthed from that second chakra where we have the ability to birth life into the world.

It is also our birthright to birth earth and realize our dreams into the world, our desires into the world, and create the life of our dreams.

So, you know, tapping into manifestation and that co creation ability, we are able to manifest the life of our dreams.

Like I speak about in our books, that's really alchemy.

It's that magical process of transformation.

It's transforming our life and alchemizing what in our lives and bringing forth our hopes and desires.

(...1.5s)Love it, love it.

I love (...1.8s)alchemy and spirituality and being able to transform (...1.4s)lower vibrational energies into a higher frequency of vibration.

I mean, just the process of forgiveness does that, you know, (...0.6s)it's, it's such an incredible thing that you're doing.

So let's talk about, you know, how to unleash your inner magician.

Okay, (...2.9s)I think that starts by realizing, like, we are energetic beings.

We have this energy system around us.

We're not just the physical.

We live (...0.8s)in (...0.7s)an energetic planet.

So to me and my psychic site, it looks like plasma.

So I can see the energy in the air.

And my energy interacts with other energies on the planet, whether that be with you, Tiffany via the zoom conversation or in person, or with a tree or an animal.

We are energetically sending messages back and forth between each other.

We are receivers, (...0.6s)we also can output energy.

So it's working with that energy that we have that becomes our manifestation tool.

So it's really feeling it and seeing it and experiencing it already manifest, brings it into our life.

It really just up levels, up the vibration, the frequency in your life.

When we're using our arrows, when we're using our sexual energy, (...0.8s)and sort of like um, how do I say, besides increasing the vibration in the frequency, like up leveling in our body, our energetic power, (...0.7s)mmm hmm, our creation power through our orgasm, which ignites our life force energy, (...1.2s)and it explodes it out to the universe.

It's like, this we're sending out a wish, right?

And a wish (...1.2s)is a prayer, (...0.6s)and our words are prayers.

So when we're speaking to the universe what we wanna create in our life, and we're backing it with this fuel that we naturally have within ourselves, then we became that co creator in our life.

Because it's not just us, (...0.7s)you know, (...0.7s)our energy, it's the energy of the divine as well.

So we're co creating with the universe to create reality.

We're not just objective, (...0.8s)we're objective creators.

So what we think, what we feel, (...0.8s)we create, and we do that in an ecstatic way with our sexual energy, ramping up our energy within our bodies to create.

What can someone create?

(...1.1s)Give us give, give me some more, like, practical tangible ways to use this energy.

(...1.1s)Wow, you, anything that you wanna manifest in your life.

Say, oh, I want that dream job or that dream relationship, or, you know, there's material objects.

We always want material objects, right, but those you have to, kind of like, we have to be realistic, right.

So let's talk about relationship, because tons of people want relationship, so we're (...1.3s)attracting in our lives the relationship that's in vibrational alignment to ourselves.

Okay, so what do we need to do first?

We need to look within and see what we're our programs, what are our relationship patterns, and what do we need to change.

So we start to dive into shadow work, so to speak that internal work, because our internal work really is that supreme alchemy in life.

We love shadow LED into gold, so let's mine some gold, so we mine our gold.

Like, (...0.6s)what am I insecure about?

What am I insecurities?

Do I feel like I'm not enough?

Do I feel like I'm not worthy?

So then you dive in to those aspects of where we're not enough, where we're not worthy, where we don't deserve this (...1s)person in our life that up levels relationship, brings us to sacred union.

And we dive into and work on the personal.

Then when we uncover (...0.6s)that, we increase our vibration and frequency, and we start uplining yourself aligning to what we really desire.

Because we're unwrapping (...0.6s)all of our childhood wounds, all of our programming to be able to align with what we desire.

So first, I really feel like it's doing the healing work.

It's what do I need to remove from my life, so I can attract the partner that I desire.

Would you?

I need to change, and we can look at our past relationships, because we're the common denominator in that past relationship.

So how was I showing up, (...0.7s)what was I allowing (...1s)right, where was I not standing up for myself, not having a voice, and our voice is our fifth chakra, which is also creative energy, which works with our second chakra that burst into the world.

(...1.1s)So looking at how did I show up, what do I need to change?

Then when we figured that out, then we can sit down and write down.

Oh, I want a higher vibrational relationship.

I want soul relationship.

I want someone who shows up for me, like I show up for them.

I want somebody who's done their work, because I've done my work.

I want someone who's gonna give me the truth, who's gonna be open and integrity.

Like I'm open in integrity, (...0.7s)yeah, and then I go through this process.

I wrote everything down.

I'm speaking for my own experience, and I put it under my pillow or under my mattress.

And I said my little prayer, because words are prayers (...0.8s)and intentions.

(...1.6s)Then you can do your sex magic practice.

Because we all know that a self pleasure practice (...0.7s)is the gateway into letting our partners know what we enjoy and sex.

But (...1.4s)we use our own vital sexual energy, our orgasm to birth our perfect partner into the world.

And it can be done (...1.2s)with anything, like I said, relationship, job, money.

I've even known people who have had sex on a bed of money to bring more money into their lives.

(...4.5s)I've done it in my imagining, not literally (...0.8s)basically heal (...0.9s)and orgasms.

Yeah, (...1.3s)the big O, (...1.4s)the big O uh huh, (...0.6s)and what do you recommend for people who are still kind of (...1.5s)struggling with owning their sensuality and sexuality?

Perhaps they have had some past traumas or (...0.8s)some spiritual, religious, or family upbringing that, you know, has shame connected to it.

Dirty bad.

Like, how do you (...1.2s)guide them (...1.3s)in their breakthroughs about that?

When I working with my clients, we do dive into those that pass history of wounding, you know, where our parents have wounded us and said, oh no, don't do that.

Don't touch yourself, it's not okay.

Or wait until you're married.

If you have sex in school, you're gonna be called a slut.

You know, we get all sorts of messaging.

We get it from religion where it's not okay to have relations with another person.

We're supposed to save ourselves for marriage.

That, you know, we're unclean or unworthy if we have premarital sex.

Uh, we see it in schools.

They really don't teach us, you know, everything we need to know about relating.

They teach us the basics about anatomy and that sort of thing.

I know that there are other programs coming online where they're really trying to be more informative speaking around consent and likes and dislikes and desires.

So that is up and coming.

I don't wanna put everybody down, but we do still have a long way to come when it comes to those past messaging.

And there is a lot of shame around sex, so (...0.8s)again, doing that shadow work, looking to see what were my messages, what did my parents tell me, what did my religious, um, leaders tell me, what did I hear in school, what did my friends say?

Now was I promiscuous?

And then I had to pay for that, you know, by gossip or through gossip.

What, you know, did my mom find my diary and shame me, you know, when I was a teenager and really unwrap that and know that (...0.9s)sex and sexuality is okay.

It is our birth rate as well.

We are sexual being, (...0.7s)you know, so it's really changing the language on our sex and sexuality.

It's okay to feel arousal.

It's okay to have desire.

Everybody is beautiful.

Own your body, no matter what it looks like.

You don't have to live up to any societal norm, quote unquote, thank you.

We have to aspire to, yeah, forget it saying that, (...0.7s)forget it.

I was a pole dance instructor in my late 30s and early 40s.

And my favorite most most, most favorite thing was seeing a woman come in and feeling very insecure.

I know I felt really insecure after birthing four boys, you know, in my body and being able to dance and feel free and get back in touch with my body was really important.

And I loved bringing that to the women that came into my classes, you know, week after week that they would come in and I would see them getting stronger and stronger and feel more comfortable in their body and start to feel sexy again.

They were all getting their sexy back.

Yes I get that sexy back.

Yes get that sexy back.

And it's like they're blossoming.

Like you can just see their Rosebud opening.

Yes, I love it, I love it.

(...1.9s)So (...0.7s)let's bring in a little more of the soul integration aspects to it.

So (...0.6s)talk to me more about soul integration and its significance and personal healing and growth.

Oh, thanks for asking.

Yeah.

I got a download in 2,018 around soul integration.

And I've been studying core shamanism since the 90s.

So I was very familiar with reintegrating fractured off pieces of the soul back into our human experience.

So I'm having my own (...0.8s)self pleasure practice one day, and I hear during my self pleasure practice to reintegrate those missing fractured art pieces from my own sexual history, those times in my past of, you know, sexual trauma and wounding and shaming.

So I did a process where I called back all missing aspects of myself to reintegrate into myself.

And I think that is part of the healing process.

I think my journey in life has been healing.

My purpose in life is all around healing.

I think that the more that we can heal, the more empowered we can become.

And it's important to do that healing work to find our center, to find that grounding spot within ourselves where we're no longer functioning out of those old wounds, programs and paradigms, and we can, (...1.8s)um, function, so we can function in the present moment without all of those experiences showing up.

I had a vision (...0.6s)a couple months ago around shadow work that I had never had before where they were actual shadows standing behind me, saying, you can't do this, you shouldn't do that, blah blah, blah, right?

As our inner voices do, but instead of showing up as that inner negative self talk, it showed up as an actual shadow (...0.6s)in my periphery.

And I go, okay, this shadow, why they call it shadow work, follows us around (...0.8s)day after day, saying, oh, you can't do that because of this.

Remember that experience you had in the past where that happened, be careful, that's gonna show up now.

So if we can (...0.9s)get all that aside, hush the inner self talk, get rid of the shadows, we can show up in the present moment and not from that past lived experience.

Because when we're showing up with the past living experience, we're holding ourselves back.

We're living out of fear and we're not allowing ourselves to open our heart to have that relationship I was talking about where we're (...0.6s)vulnerable and in integrity and completely surrender to the love experience (...0.8s)when we're folk, you know, because if we've had a broken heart, we're afraid to step forward and have that, right.

So if we do the healing around the broken heart in the past (...0.9s)or the trauma, we can step forward and go, no, right now, I'm living in the present, and I'm gonna love full out.

I'm gonna show up for myself.

I don't care what happens if I end up with a broken heart three years from now, great.

I'll learn something from it.

It'll take me to the next level.

Yes, yes, I have something that I call Virgin Heart.

It's like loved, like, you've never been hurt before.

Oh, I love that.

Yeah, and so it's like, it it, it's actually one of the blogs on my new cell phone app that just came out two days ago.

So I'm, I'm like, awesome.

I, I forgot I'd even written that, and it wasn't until I saw the app.

I was like, oh yeah, we need to do more healing on that.

Because people are still carrying around these broken hearts about so many aspects of their life (...0.6s)not working out.

Not, um, and it's not just romance.

It can be broken heart from a career or a family member or a friend or somebody passing, or (...0.9s)a dream just not (...0.6s)manifesting.

So, yeah, I love that you can hold us back.

Yeah, I love that you do a tremendous amount of shadow work, and it can really, really open people up to an empowering space.

Hmm, (...0.7s)yes, it can.

Yeah, and I also loved that you said you can do it by yourself.

And in fact, that's what's gonna help you to teach your partner what you like.

And yes, (...0.6s)um yeah, I think getting back to like really getting your sexy back, self pressure, self pleasure practice is another way to do that.

It sends you into a space of self exploration.

You spend some time with yourself, some quality time with yourself.

I know it sounds out of the norm because it is because we're told not to do it, right?

The actual word masturbation (...0.7s)is negative.

So if we refrain that to self pleasure, like I like to say it takes it out of the negative, out of the shame where it means to defile yourself, and into pleasure where you're actually bringing yourself that pleasure that you desire.

And as you're stepping into your pleasure, as you're getting to know your body, you're turning yourself on literally.

You're bringing more blessing to your life, you're bringing more adventure into your life, you know what you want.

Then when you do have a partner, then you can use your voice to tell your partner what pleases you, and then you can enter into (...1s)sex magic practice with your partner in estatic bliss and practice.

Nice, you've already got self love.

And when we have self love No.

1, we don't settle (...1.4s)because we stand up for what we desire.

And 2, with self love, once we have full love for ourselves, our partners aren't completing us, but they get to stand side by side with us in sacred union.

Is that divine?

Masculine define feminine coming together in union instead of one of us, you know, trying to fill a hole in one or the other.

(...2.3s)Yes, (...0.6s)excellent.

So I know you and I could probably talk for quite a long time about (...0.6s)various spiritual topics, healing topics, sensuality, sexuality.

And (...0.7s)we also need to start wrapping it up here.

So (...0.6s)tell us how we can learn more about you and, um, what are some next steps?

(...1.3s)Next steps will definitely go by my book.

It's on Amazon, so if you type in Sex Magic, Liz Peterson and Amazon, it'll pop right up Tiffany.

Hopefully you'll have the link down below in the show notes and then you can also find me at raise the vibe with Liz.

Com and on social media at raise the vibe.

(...1.3s)Excellent.

And when people go to raise the vibe, (...1.4s)are there (...0.9s)access to any (...0.6s)additional freebies that you have there?

Can you tell us about that?

Yes, thanks for asking, Tiffany.

Yes, go to raise the vibe with Liz.

Com and sign up for my newsletter and you can get my resiliency course for free.

You can also find all of my events, all of my courses and my podcast, raise the vibe with Liz right there.

Fantastic.

So I will have the raise the vibe with Liz.

Com in the show notes as well for you guys.

And (...0.6s)thank you again, Liz.

I appreciate you being here and providing this safe, wonderful (...0.7s)space (...0.8s)and bringing more healing (...0.8s)to the parts of us (...0.6s)that are not yet quite healed and bringing in spirituality and sensuality and creation energy.

(...1.3s)And, (...0.8s)um, just one, one other little side note, I noticed that the stronger my spiritual connection is, the more creation energy just wishes through me.

I mean, I've, I felt like I've been under the Niagara Falls at times in my life where I'm just like, oh, and I, you know, and then I get all these downloads just to create this course and this program and this guided meditation, oh, and, (...0.7s)you know, finally finish the cell phone app.

And, and like, I get all these little messages.

And so creation energy can be such a beautiful thing (...1.1s)and so empowering, well, scientifically.

And I too, live my life from that space where I work with the energies within myself.

I work with the energies of the planet.

The more I open up, the more in a flow (...0.6s)I become.

And then it's just one little break from after another, one little puzzle piece after another.

And it's so magical all the coincidences and synchronicities and ideas that just flow in.

Well said Tiffany, I love.

That is the magic of life for me.

Love it, love it.

Alright, much love and blessings to you and to our listeners and come back for the next episode because (...0.9s)it is going to be incredible.

I bring wonderful (...0.6s)spiritual empathic people onto the show (...1.1s)that are heart centered, that are here to serve and love up on you and give you insights and AHAs and opportunities for growth and development.

So I'll see you on the next show.

Much love and blessings.

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